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Wednesday, September 4, 2019

Review: Normal People

Normal People Normal People by Sally Rooney
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

This is not a plot driven novel, more a series of characterological explorations. Both protagonists she follows throughout a life-span. The book and Rooney's narrative is oddly engaging, though not powerful or compelling; I will not remember this book and nor has it shifted my perspectives or my life. Is this too much to ask from a novel? Yes and No. The most beautiful pieces of literature are enduring and pierces the heart, rendering me better for having read it. This book, I kept reading and finished only because my other 'orders' from the library had not yet arrived. The title is aptly named, "Normal People," she elucidates in almost mundane detail, which most of us will be able to relate to. It has pathos and tragedy, which is all the more engaging because the "pathos" she describes is all of our lives, in each one of us. The BDSM ethos described is not at all about sex, but more about the psychological elements of growing up that led up to her developing this part of herself. It will challenge those readers who have a definitive, judgy, and closed view of the BDSM community, hopefully recognizing that there are legitimate reasons why people are drawn to these practices. Rooney is a you g writer and I expect that as she hones her craft, she'll develop further. For now, this novel is a higher than average decent read.

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Sunday, August 25, 2019

Review: The Road

The Road The Road by Cormac McCarthy
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I don't usually read post-apocalyptic stuff. But this--this is transcendent. McCarthy is a master storyteller and sculpts his words to fashion perfection. I was moved to cry many many times, my breath stilled at how raw and real, the stripped down bare beauty and humanity of it. The kindness and empathy, the love in austere hate and soot and ugly dirt. I would never have thought I could love a book as much as I do this. It's a testimony to the power of his writing--his style so lean, it makes Hemingway look like Dickens. His prose is almost poetry, mesmerizing and hypnotic. I just finished reading the last page, so perfect, I willed it to be the last sentence because it felt like the perfect musical note, the most ripe melody on which to end a song. The plotting and content of this will not beckon anyone, but the gorgeousness of the writing, the sheer lilt, the love in exchange between father and son, everything from the coke can to the baked beans and water, to those last few pages of of canned peaches. I will never think of peaches --canned or fresh--ever again. I will never not want to share. Now with all that's happening in our country and world, now more than ever, each page struck my heart with terror for our planet. It seemed more real than not, that our world will come to an end, and that's the scary part--that it didn't seem like a future sci-fi reality, but very much a present cataclysmic event around the corner. I have never read anything remotely like this, and I doubt I ever will: his writing is beyond reproach, beyond anything I've ever come across--lean and spare, masculine, strong and supple, muscular punchy packed dense sentences. Nothing extraneous, barely any punctuation and little use for attributing the speaker to the sentence. Oddly, it works beautifully. Normally this would've been too bare for me, but it has an unexpected elegance to the writing. It's literary and will forever stand the test of time, for the writing g alone, and add to it, the content, it's one of the most top five most continually current pieces of literature out there. It should be required reading for high schoolers learning about climate change, it ought to be required reading in English lit, and in science class, and in every other class I can think of. After I finished it, I googled McCarthy and was shocked to learn he won the Pulitzer Prize for literature with this novel. Why am I not one bit surprised? He deserves it. Every damn sentence is a gem, an incandescent light sparkles off every page. I tore this book as if literally there is no tomorrow, as the McCarthy writes about. I could not read it fast enough, as if someone might snatch the paperback away from my fingers. I'm head over heels seriously in love with this, my heart heavy with grief over what we humans, our species does to each other and to this fragile world we step on. I somersaulted into this book and came out the other end a radically changed person--for the better. You will be too. Please please read it.




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Tuesday, August 20, 2019

Review: The Last House Guest

The Last House Guest The Last House Guest by Megan Miranda
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I enjoyed it while I was reading it, was engaged while in it, but after a few days, I'd be hard pressed to remember much of it. It's not especially riveting, won't change your life, the writing not especially elevated and neither is the plot propulsive or original. I find the whole thing forgettable, thoughI definitely found it worthy of flipping one page after another, to finish reading it within a couple of days. Based on this book, I can't say I'm motivated to go seek out Miranda's other works. It's a solid beach read and a pleasant past-time. If you want more, this will not be your ticket.

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Monday, August 19, 2019

Review: Making Contact: Uses of Language in Psychotherapy

Making Contact: Uses of Language in Psychotherapy Making Contact: Uses of Language in Psychotherapy by Leston Havens
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I adore this book. In grad school in my psychology program, it influenced me beyond what I can describe. Havens writes from an interpersonal, subjective, phenomenological, linguistic perspective. The empathy he heaps on the subject matter--and on his clients--is a marvel. He describes and elucidates with such clarity his language choices, the way he talks to clients, his choice of words, phrases and questions, his statements. Always, he was mindful of not making the client feel accused and to extract maximum information while being optimally therapeutic. His words, as he teaches, drips with kindness and gentleness; his presence itself is healing, and somehow he magically transfers and embodies this in his writing. This book became lodged in my soul and I took to heart his way of Being, to the point that each time I'm with a client, his words reinforce who I already was. I fell more than a little bit in love with, oddly one of my guiding theoretical idols. The world of psychiatry and psychology was lucky he chose these realms. He gifted us, beyond the arc of people he directly touched, to those us who indirectly benefited from his wisdom. Please, if you're in the profession--or about to go into it, do yourself a favor and read it. If you're a client in therapy, read it and share with your therapist. If you're not in therapy but contemplating it, read it for it surely will tempt you to take the therapeutic plunge :-) And if you fit in neither of these groups and simply want a terrific read by a master of storytelling with prose as clear as lake, read it.

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Sunday, August 18, 2019

Review: All Quiet on the Western Front

All Quiet on the Western Front All Quiet on the Western Front by Erich Maria Remarque
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I cannot lavish enough praise on this work of art, true literature. Gorgeously written, sentences shimmer, heart and characterization without peer. This is not the sort of book I'd normally be drawn to--war and descriptions of it, not my thing. But my husband extolled the virtues and it piqued my curiosity. Wow. Remarque can write--I got lost in the content and the artistry and beauty of the depictions of battle, the humanity of it all. This should be required reading for everyone at any age, but especially the formative ones.

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Review: Lord of the Flies

Lord of the Flies Lord of the Flies by William Golding
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Every child should read this. Every bully should read this. Every bullied child should read this. Damn, this rocked my world, more now as I reflect on having read it than when I actually read it in junior high, when frankly, I was too young to appreciate this. I amend my earlier statement: every child should read and then re-read it periodically as they develop--and they should truly get it. As a metaphor for society, it just doesn't get any better than this. And btw, our so called "president," Trump, needs a primer course on this book. He needs to read it, and digest every pulpy sentence on each page.

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Review: Plato: Complete Works

Plato: Complete Works Plato: Complete Works by Plato
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Read it in college, as a philosophy (double) major with psychology--and this launched me down a ideological and theoretical quagmire, a maelstrom of questioning and then some. I fell in love with Plato's notion fo the "ideal." Imagine a fresh faced 18 year old, with little real life experience, wanting to believe that everything has an ideal version of the thing itself, so taken was I with this, I equated it with fact. Thank-god I came out of this phase, but reading this tome is an ambitious project. You may as well forget reading anything else for a while. It's dense and requires commitment. If you're inclined to philosophy and non-fiction, this is for you, though you'd also have to be partial to early Greek notions where it all began. It's very well structured, logically presented, and well-written, if a bit dry.

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